Socks
--by Frances Hughes
Last November ten students,
ages 12 and 13, from a bay area suburb ventured into the local city of San
Francisco to distribute sandwiches to the homeless. I was one of these
students.
I think back to the time
when I was young when things came easy. You wanted something nice, you
waited till your birthday or Christmas, you took things for granted. Your
parents lived to look after you and provide you with a roof over your head,
clothes and food. Never once during my childhood did the idea of not having
a home enter my head, the idea itself was crazy. Then I entered the seventh
grade and my perception of this changed drastically. I learned the realities
of the world we live in, the fact that millions in this world don't have a
house, a place to stay, the fact that millions go to bed hungry, or millions
don’t have a job that can support them and their family.
Then the idea came to me and
a small group of my friends. We decided to spend a Saturday morning giving
out peanut butter and jelly sandwiches to the homeless in our community. We
pitched the idea to our sixth period class and got an outstanding response.
The class brought in supplies, and over the next week we planned our project
and that Friday we met up to make the sandwiches. Nine students walked to
our classmates’ house loaded down with bags and bags of bread, peanut
butter, jelly and juice boxes. We arrived at approximately 3:10 and by 3:15
we had a whole assembly line working. We had people spreading, bagging, and
people putting a sandwich and a juice box in paper bags. Since it was close
to the holidays we also added a small note saying, “Happy Holidays”. Soon
the house was covered in paper bags and the students were covered in jelly.
At about six o'clock we finished and as parents arrived to pick us up they
were amazed with the work we had done in such a short time.
That brings us to the next
morning, early the next morning. Getting middle schoolers out of bed before
twelve can be challenging, getting middle schoolers up at seven to do
something that will benefit others is extraordinary, but we achieved this.
As we arrived at the local train station at about eight we distributed the
sandwiches to the students there to help. We had canvas bags filled,
backpacks filled and countless plastic bags, and as we got on the train I'm
sure it was a sight to see.
We had gone over how we
would perform this task countless times in class, and it went something like
this. Walk up to the homeless person, politely ask them if they would care
for a sandwich, if yes, hand them one and walk away, if no simply say thank
you and walk away, and that's exactly how it went.
After gathering up outside the train station in San Francisco
we split into three groups and went off. I can so clearly remember the first
person we ran into, hunched over a garbage can in a long black overcoat. I
turned to my friend and we decided to ask if he cared for a sandwich. As we
approached him I remember feeling anxious. Who knew what would happen when
he turned around? How would he react? Even so we went up to him and asked if
he would like a sandwich. He turned and smile, a smile that made my day,
reached out for the paper bag, turned to us and simply said, "Thank you and
God Bless". It was simple but it meant something. It meant so much, for
someone who had so little he seemed genuinely grateful. And for me, someone
who had so much, it meant the world to me, that I had personally made one
guy smile. He now had something to eat for that day, and that feeling was
inexplicable.
That day came with many
stories, many I will never forget, but honestly one really stood out. We
walked up to this guy with a shopping cart and handed him a sandwich. He
turned, thanked us, and then asked one, simple question, "Do you have any
socks?"
Socks! Have you ever thought about not having socks? Have you
ever not had socks? I doubt it. But this old man in San Francisco, who to us
was "the homeless guy" all he wanted was a pair of socks. As a stood in
front of this man, the man that even to this day has truly impacted my life,
I was so close to bending down and whipping off my socks, but thought better
of it after I realized my feet were ten times smaller than his but I
couldn’t help but think, socks, why socks? I thought back to all the
expensive gifts I had asked my parents for in the last thirteen years, and
all this man wanted was socks. I think of my bedroom, a bed, ipod speakers,
books everywhere, a closet full of clothes, and all he wanted was socks.
This experience changed so
much for me. It taught me that the majority of people who are fortunate
enough to have money and houses and food and clothes don't take a second
look at the people who don't. Take a minute, an hour, out of your day, talk
to the people less fortunate than you, look at the world around you and
realize how lucky you are. Be thankful for that pair of socks.
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